iseng iseng aja nih baca-baca bagian relationship advice buat tipe dreamy idealist.. uaaaaaah, ada bagian yang ‘menyentil’ nih. hihihi..
Fantasies, dreams, and ideals, play an important role in your life. In your heart, you carry visions of a better world where the wolf plays with the lamb, and the creeks carry milk and honey *yap yap! agree :p* Naturally, this also applies to the subject of love. You are absolutely convinced that your perfect other half with whom you can merge into the perfect oneness, exists somewhere in this world *i believe in fairy tale. hahahaha*. You are obviously aware that this extraordinary gift won’t just land in your lap, but you are willing to wait for a long time and sacrifice a lot, if necessary, to reach this vital goal. “Per aspera ad astra,” or “Through the night to the light,” is your motto.
As all Idealists, you tend to raise your chosen partner up on a sky-high pedestal – especially at the beginning of a relationship. Essentially, you have excellent insight into human nature but when you are in love, you obviously throw all of that out the window. That can be the only explanation why you aren’t able to see even the smallest blemish on this person. “Idealizing” does not even begin to describe this process, IDOLIZING is probably closer to the truth. All the way up there on that pedestal, your partner is probably already getting dizzy and asking him/herself what he/she has done to deserve this unconditional adoration in the first place. But then, who would not like to see him-/herself mirrored as the perfect person in the eyes of a loving other?
On the other hand, it is a real challenge to meet your ideal of love and romance in everyday life. Sooner or later, you are going to be disappointed to find out that you haven’t gotten a hold of an angel nor a superman, but just a normal person with all the inherent strengths and weaknesses. Now the question is, can you love your partner as he is and not as you would like for him to be?
hahahaha ^^ ya ya ya, selama ini emang aku selalu pengennya cowokku tu ‘begini’ dan ‘begitu’, dan akhirnya sebel sendiri karna ternyata dia ‘tidak sesuai harapan’ ku.. mwahahaha ^^
kata-kata yang kutebelin di atas mungkin terdengar klise yah, tapi akhirnya aku sadar, sampe sekarang aku masih mencintai dia++, bukan “the way he is“.
++nya banyak lah =)) pengen cowok yang perhatian, yang sabar kalo aku ngambek, yang menomor satukan aku, yang mau ngalah, yang mau memahami keanehanku, sifat-sifat jelekku..
as for now.. i want to love him, just the way he is :) just like he loves me, the way i am *gyaaah, keluar deh pedenya :p*
hmm hmm.. etooo.. bisa gak yah? hahahaha ^^ dicoba dicobaa :D